Saturday, July 18, 2026

Enthusiast vs. Critic



I am not a critic.

I have never thought of myself as a critic. I enjoy the arts.  I am, instead, an artistic enthusiast.  Does that sound too pretentious?

When I hear the word critic, I think of someone approaching a work of art with a critical eye—someone trained to notice weaknesses, question choices, identify inconsistencies, and determine whether the work succeeds or fails. That kind of attention has real value. Serious criticism can deepen our understanding of art, challenge careless assumptions, and help artists and audiences see things they might otherwise overlook. I enjoy reading critics, even when I disagree with them.

But criticism is not my instinctive way of encountering art.

My first impulse is not to ask, “What is wrong with this?” It is to ask, “What is this trying to do?” I want to enter the world the artist has created. I want to understand its language, its intentions, its emotional logic, and the circumstances from which it emerged. I want to discover what is alive within it.

Most of all, I want to like it.

That does not mean I like everything, nor does it mean that I am incapable of recognizing flaws. Some works leave me cold. Others frustrate, disappoint, or even repel me. Enthusiasm does not require the abandonment of judgment. It simply means that judgment is not where I begin.

I begin with openness.

I want art to fill my soul and change my life. I want music to reveal an emotion I could not name. I want a painting to alter the way I see color, space, or the human face. I want a novel to allow me to inhabit another consciousness. I want theater to make a roomful of strangers breathe, laugh, grieve, or hope together.

To approach art primarily in search of defects would feel, to me, like entering a friendship by looking for reasons it will fail. I would rather begin by asking what a work might offer and what it might require of me. Perhaps I will eventually conclude that it does not succeed. But I want to give it the opportunity to speak before I begin arguing with it.

This disposition is probably connected to a broader tendency in my life. My primary urge is to look for commonalities rather than differences. I am drawn toward connections: between people, traditions, ideas, artistic styles, and historical periods. I notice distinctions, but I do not usually begin there. I begin by asking what might be shared.

The same is true when I encounter art that is unfamiliar to me. Rather than emphasizing the distance between the work and my own experience, I look for a point of entry. What human longing does it express? What fear, beauty, anger, grief, or joy might I recognize within it? Even the most experimental or culturally distant work may contain some gesture toward a common human experience.

Enthusiasm, however, does not always play well in academic or public discussions of art. Judgment often seems to carry greater intellectual prestige. It can appear more sophisticated to explain why Leonard Bernstein is overrated than to describe why his music moves us; more serious to criticize Norman Rockwell, Stephen King, or Neil Simon than to consider what their enormous audiences have found in their work. Suspicion is treated as evidence of discernment, while enthusiasm risks being mistaken for naïveté.

Perhaps this is because enthusiasm makes us vulnerable. To say that we love something is to reveal something about ourselves. Criticism, by contrast, can provide a position of safety and authority. The critic stands at a distance from the work and renders judgment upon it. The enthusiast admits that the work has crossed that distance and affected him.

I have encountered the more destructive form of criticism in artistic forums and symposiums. Participants did not merely describe their reactions to a work or question the choices behind it. They attacked. At one institution I attended, these sessions were known as the “Monday Night Fights.” The name was probably intended humorously, but it accurately described an atmosphere I found counterproductive, childish, and mean-spirited. Criticism had ceased to be a way of helping artists understand their work and had become a performance of aggression.

In Dave Eggers’s novel Contrapposto, the character Marcus Carpenter says, “Only when you have directed your anger toward the real demons of the world, its despots and tyrants, and have vanquished them all—only then can you attack another artist.”

The statement is intentionally extravagant, but I recognize the moral impulse behind it. The world already contains more than enough cruelty. Why should artists reproduce it in the very communities that are supposed to nurture creation? Why should intelligence be demonstrated through contempt? Why should one artist need to diminish another in order to establish seriousness or authority?

None of this means that every response must be praise. “This work did not resonate with me” is an entirely legitimate beginning, especially when it is followed by a thoughtful account of why. There is a difference between saying that a work did not reach us and declaring that it has no value. There is also a difference between questioning an artistic choice and questioning the intelligence, talent, or integrity of the person who made it.

Artists bear responsibility as well. Anyone who creates has probably experienced that sudden defensiveness—the feeling that criticism of the work is criticism of the self. I know that feeling. Creating something requires vulnerability, and it can be difficult to separate what we have made from who we are. We may feel attacked even when no attack was intended. We may reject useful criticism because it hurts.

But intention and manner still matter. Is the critic trying to take the artist down, or trying to help the artist take the next step? Does the response arise from curiosity and generosity, or from the desire to display superiority? Does the critic attempt to understand what the artist was trying to accomplish before announcing where the work has failed?

Helpful criticism may still be difficult to hear. It may identify genuine weaknesses. It may force an artist to reconsider decisions or confront limitations. But criticism offered in good faith treats the work seriously without treating the artist contemptuously. Its purpose is not to win a fight. Its purpose is to make greater understanding—and perhaps better art—possible.

Critics often help us distinguish. They clarify what is original and what is derivative, what is coherent and what is confused, what is skillful and what is merely fashionable. Enthusiasts perform a different function. We invite people in. We say, “Listen to this.” “Look at this.” “Read this.” “There is something here worth experiencing.”

A healthy artistic culture needs both impulses. It needs people willing to examine art rigorously, and it needs people willing to love it generously. It needs discernment, but it also needs wonder. Judgment without enthusiasm can become sterile or cruel. Enthusiasm without judgment can become indiscriminate. At their best, the two dispositions can correct and enrich one another.

My own place, however, is primarily on the side of wonder.

I do not want merely to evaluate a work of art. I want to encounter it. I want to understand what it is reaching toward. I want to let it surprise me, unsettle me, delight me, and perhaps transform me.

I am not a critic.

I am an enthusiast.

Wednesday, March 29, 2017

Eulogy, for Dad

This is the eulogy I delivered at my Father's Interment Service:

My father was a man of deep faith. We celebrated that in his Funeral Mass yesterday and will celebrate it again with the Interment Service we are about to do here. However, before that I wanted to talk about my memories of Dad.

On a Saturday morning, my Dad would find me and say, “Let’s go run some errands.” I knew that many times that would also include a stop for breakfast at the Chuck Wagon on Route 40 or, if it was later, a stop for lunch at Fiddles underneath the bridge in Brownsville, PA.

We’d get in the car and run the errands in town. Since this was the prehistoric time before ATM machines, often it meant a stop at the bank, or the Post Office, or the Dry Cleaners. Wherever Dad went he knew everyone and had a bright “good morning” for all. Then we’d start on the back roads for the errands out of town. My Dad knew every road in Southwestern Pennsylvania.

As I got older and found out more about my family history I discovered that my grandfather had not always been there for my Dad. My grandparent’s marriage had not been happy. Family was very important to Dad and that he considered being a father his most important job. I began to understand that this was due to the difficulties that he had experienced as a child. Being an only child, my Mother’s large family basically adopted him. While no one would ever accuse father of being a musician, he was at every school concert where Janice, my sister, and I performed. That was what a father did.

My Dad loved to travel. In the Army he was stationed in West Berlin, Germany. While there he took advantage of opportunities to visit other parts of Europe, including visiting the small town in Sicily where the Gennaula family had originated. He would always tell the story how he was instructed to eat at no one’s house, for if he ate at one and not another it would have started a family war.

Growing up I knew my Dad truly loved my mom, Suzanne. However, my Mom for the most part did not enjoy travelling as much as he did. This led to a period in my preteen years where I would take Father and Son Trips with Dad. I would act as his navigator and tell him where to turn and such. Later they would come to visit me wherever I lived, whether it was New York State, North Carolina, Illinois, or Minnesota. They also visited Janice, her husband Drew, and later their children, whether they lived in Washington DC or Germany. Dad truly loved being a grandfather to Tony, Rachel, Tommy, and John.

After 57 years of marriage, my Mom died. My Dad had cared for her as she had become increasingly frail. Afterward, Dad bought a new car and started travelling to see family and friends. On his travels he visited with Mary Lou and her daughter Dru Anne, in Gettysburg. My Dad had known Ray, Mary Lou’s first husband. Together, along with Mary Lou’s brother-in-law, they had helped Dad finish our basement family room. When my Dad told me that he and Mary Lou were serious and were planning on getting married my first thought was “My Dad is going to marry my CCD Teacher.” Janice, my wife Wendy, and I and our children were so happy to have Mary Lou and Dru Anne join our family. Thank you for being with Dad as he faced these last years of his life.

I have so many memories of my father. What I will remember most however, is my Dad’s smile--his contagious smile, as my cousin Jane recently said. It was a smile that knew of the difficulties of life and how to move pass them through a kind word or just that simple smile. I love you, Dad. Rest in Peace.

Wednesday, August 06, 2014

The Tourist Trap

Tonight the role of Wendy Gennaula will be performed by Chris Gennaula.  Last night our "Good to Momma" Blogger took the night off from the Fringe to actually blog a bit.  So, tonight while she is back at her 'Fringe Beat' I will guest blog about a show I saw last night.

North Dakota may say it's legendary, but after seeing "The Tourist Trap", I think South Dakota really deserves that title.  We start with a simple set of a table with a knife, a suit hanging on a coat rack, a door, and a seat that resembles an electric chair with straps but without the wires.  We are in a room of a notorious house, now 'museum' of a notorious cult leader.  Then we told the back story of said cult leader.  But something is amiss... of course.

This is a horror story.  There will be blood, although I was honestly expecting more.  (But that is probably because I just finished binge watching last year's True Blood.)  But, what was lacking in stage blood was made up in suspense of who was going to be the first victim.   The cast brought out the terror of the story as alliances shifted throughout the show.  Each one of the actors had their moment to shine.  I could comment more on those moments, but that would risk ruin by spoiler.

Like many productions at the Fringe, this show felt like it could be expanded into a bigger show.  The running time was around 40 minutes.  I would look forward to seeing the next iteration of this tale.




Monday, January 07, 2013

Eulogy, for Mom


A year ago today, my mother died.  Even though she had been in declining health, it was quite sudden. I had just spoke to her over the phone that morning and everything seemed fine.  At the Funeral Mass I gave the following eulogy for her:

EULOGY

Mom was ‘Jubilant’. Each Saturday Mom would quiz me on the word for the week. This last Saturday she asked me what was another word for “rejoice”. For Mom, I couldn’t give just any synonym—it had to be the one she had in mind. I was not sure which word she meant of the hundreds that would fit the bill.  So, I told her I didn’t know.  The word was Jubilant.  She followed the answer by “See, I taught you something!”

Mom loved to teach. Even from an early age Mom loved to play school and always, she was the teacher. She was the first of her family to go to college. At first she didn’t like it there.  She was away from all of her family—and she came from a BIG family. On a ride back home with her brother George she told him that she wanted to quit. He reminded her that she was lucky to get to go to college and that she could not quit. And I am very happy that she did not.  Teaching led Mom to Dad.

For Mom’s first teaching job out of college was here in town. And in that first class of senior students she taught (wait for it...) my father. Now growing up I did not know how my parents had met. But one day while checking a book out of the college library, the librarian asked, “are you Chuck and Suzie’s boy?” I said yes. The librarian turned to her coworker and told a romance story worthy of Danielle Steel.  In that tale my father had declared his undying love for her right at the night of graduation. Well, I ran home and came in the kitchen door to find them sitting there and said “We have to talk.”  I found out the graduation night story was not true.  They didn’t start to date until after my dad went to college and returned from the army.  But I did find out that one of the other teachers did ask Mom that year “Why is that Gennaula boy always hanging around?”

My mom loved being a mother. I always knew Mom loved Janice and that Mom loved me. She even gave up teaching for a while to have us. But eventually she did go back to teaching. And when it was our time, both Janice and I found out what my father already knew: Mom was a tough teacher! You had to earn your grade—no ifs, ands, or buts. In fact, years earlier she had given my dad a D. After they were married she found that old grade book and realized that she should have given him a ‘C’.  To which Dad replied “How about an A?” Mom and Dad taught by example—on how to learn and also how to have a marriage that lasts.

Mom loved being a grandmother. All those lessons that Mom taught us, we have brought to our own families. Mom became Grammy. She was so happy to be with her grandchildren and to hear about their activities. I would see her light up when she was with them.

Finally, Mom loved God. She passed on to the Lord right here in this church. In the Gospel of Mark, Jesus speaks of the faith of children. Mom was lucky to retain a childlike faith and trust through out her whole life. So Mom when I think of you in Heaven I remember your final word to me:  Jubilant.

Saturday, September 10, 2011

Book review: Mistress of the Vatican. Meh.

Mistress of the Vatican: The True Story of Olimpia Maidalchini: The Secret Female PopeMistress of the Vatican: The True Story of Olimpia Maidalchini: The Secret Female Pope by Eleanor Herman

My rating: 1 of 5 stars


How could I not be attracted to a book about a "Papessa" (lady pope)? The writing is a bit breathless and I question whether some of the conclusions are just extrapolitions. But this is basically "Pulp Fiction" of the 17th Century Vatican. Can't really recommend it much though.



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Wednesday, May 05, 2010

Flock no more...

I fare thee well, Flock.  Thy startup time is doth too great!  I will sigh no more, sigh no more while I await a usable page.  I return to Firefox (loaded with a few choice add-ons.)

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Friday, April 02, 2010

Good Friday

Eli Eli lama sabachthani? ("My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?", Matthew 27:46 and Mark 15:34).

This to me is one of the most powerful statements that Jesus ever said. We've all had times when we feel completely alone--times when the entire world seems to have fallen on top of us. As a believer it comforts me that God understands this--that Jesus experienced it first hand.

Sunday, November 01, 2009

All Saints Day

Last night I was speaking with Wendy about a family we met years ago at an Autism Parents' Group. Like us they had 2 sons with autism. During the course of our conversation the mother made a comment about our sons and their sons which have stayed with me for years: “The boys: they are a blessing to each other.”

This morning Wendy saw in the obituaries that one of their sons had died on Friday. Your heart just breaks for the family. We don’t know any of the circumstances. At one point one of our boys was in the same classroom as the boy who died, but it has been awhile. Our lives went in different directions.

We are praying for the family and living in the belief that the boy is enjoying the light of the face of God.

Tuesday, September 08, 2009

Abercrombie & Fitch fined in MOA discrimination case | StarTribune.com

"The hefty penalty from the Minnesota Department of Human Rights pleased the Maxson family of Apple Valley, which was forced to push hard for satisfaction after the retailing giant refused to apologize for the incident and even questioned whether the girl was disabled."
Abercrombie & Fitch fined in MOA discrimination case | StarTribune.com

What gets me the most is that the company questioned the girl's diagnosis--even though she was diagnosed when she was 2 years old. Abercrombie & Finch even "subject[ed] the girl to an interview with a forensic psychologist."

Wow--what wonderful customer service.
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Monday, September 07, 2009

Citizenship in a Republic - Wikisource

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat." -- Theodore Roosevelt
Citizenship in a Republic - Wikisource
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Monday, August 17, 2009

9 Things Parents Should Know About District 9 | GeekDad | Wired.com

I was reading through the GeekDad blog on Wired and saw this:

district_9_movie_poster
Will I get motion sickness?

Most of movie was shot using handheld cameras. That means lots of jerky movements. I appreciated the visual impact of the camera movements during some sequences. It got stomach wrenching after a while, leaving that giant Slushee uncomfortable in my belly. They really should have spent some of that budget on a few more camera mounts.
9 Things Parents Should Know About District 9 | GeekDad | Wired.com

I loved it. After Transformers I need to know this information!

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Sunday, August 09, 2009

Pittsburgh's Children's Hospital

Children's Hospital' Oakland site's future remains uncertain

As a child I remember travelling to Children's Hospital once every 6 months or so. I was born with a heart defect which was fixed when I was in 3rd grade by open heart surgery. It is so odd to hear that the building is now empty.

They have moved into a wonderful new facility in another part of Pittsburgh. It sounds like it is truly state of the art. Hopefully it is also less maze-like than the old building was. Though, maybe, that was part of it's "charm".

I remember the cafeteria in basement. As a kid it was an adventure to get to eat there. I also remember the X-ray department since part of my routine exam was to get a chest X-ray. And then there would be the EKG. I don't really remember much about the operating room except the bright operating light. I do remember various rooms I was in and the play area on the top floor with the roof top outdoor play area.

Cities change. Places change. I'm not really sad to hear that the hospital has moved to another place. It would be nice if the old buildings could be put to good use.

Here is a picture of the new building:

File:Children's Hospital Pittsburgh.

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Time to move on

This article on Michael Jackson and psychics is considered news worthy? Wow, is it really that slow of a news day? I'm trying to understand the depth of people's despair over his death. I understand it for his family. But the whole media circus just seems to be an extension of the what makes his life a cautionary tale.

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Away too long

I haven't blogged for quite a while. A work project took over my life for a while here. Although it is still in progress, I think I'm seeing enough of a light at the end of the tunnel that I can restore some balance to the force in my life.

I'm trying to clean up my desk a bit. My eternal task. We all had a really nice day--took the kids to the Mall of America. Although it is still one of my least favorite places, the kids had such fun that it didn't matter.

Well, back to the cleaning.

Sunday, March 22, 2009

Obey the Inner White Squirrel

Standing out, no fault of his own « The Traveling Monkey

Thanks for Allegra for this posting.  In response to the question at the end of the post:  I seem to like surrounding myself with "albino squirrels."  I like to think that even the "typical" squirrel has their own "inner albinoness".  I like people who are comfortable with that.
 
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Saturday, February 21, 2009

Busy Saturday

We woke up to about 3 inches of snow this morning. Tommy and I slept in even though we were the first that needed to leave for his piano lesson. Wendy and Tony were already up. We were a bit late for the lesson, but the lesson went well. Then my Tommy happened to suggest that stopping for breakfast at "The Egg and I" might be a good idea. How could I say no. I love taking him to the one on Lyndale Ave. I told him it reminds me of when I was a kid and my father would take me with him in the morning to run errands on a Saturday and we would end up at a good place for eggs along the way. Later Tommy and I went to see "The Gruffalo" at the Children's Theatre. It is really intended for younger kids, but both Tommy and I had a great time.

While we out for that Tony talked Wendy into taking him to Burger King and Target--so he was a happy camper. Tommy and I got back and I finally got the walks cleared and then stayed in for the night. Tonight is a snow emergency so the cars are parked in the right places so they won't get towed. All in all it was a nice day.

Monday, February 16, 2009

Sunday, February 15, 2009

Lazy Sunday

I love Sundays--especially when we have nothing planned. So, what have I done today? I made biscuits. I also made coffee. I wrote an entry on my Note Head blog. We need to get the recycling out for the week.

This has been a weekend of Shakespeare for our youngest. He saw Two Gentlemen of Verona on Friday and yesterday he saw Romeo and Juliet. I saw 2GOV but Wendy went with him alone to see R+J. He liked R+J better--it has the better script. The oldest has been mastering his fine art of "Strong Bad--in our house we believe in mixing culture from many different sources.

Well, time to gather the recycling. Oh joy. Oh bliss.

Saturday, December 27, 2008

RNC chairman condemns controversial Obama song - CNN.com

RNC chairman condemns controversial Obama song - CNN.com

I'm glad that the RNC chairman is condemning this.  Not only is the song about Obama offensive, the very title of the CD is also:  "We Hate the USA".  It is just a continuation of politics of vilification that unfortunately the GOP has mastered. 

"I think most people recognize political satire when they see it," Saltsman told CNN. "I think RNC members understand that."

There are jokes and then there is prejudice that masquerades as a joke.  Mr. Saltsman, this is an example of the second case.
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